Men’s Health : Here Are Five Reasons Women Fake Orgasms

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It may seem vague but it’s actually safe to
assume that most women have faked an orgasm
more than once. As a matter of fact, some
women fake almost all of their orgasms which
may make us assume that we all are great
actors.

It is actually difficult for a man to know if his
woman has had an orgasm. There may be no
trace at all that it has occurred! No trace of
any liquid being ejaculated or signs of “coming
down” from climax. This makes it difficult to
blame women for faking orgasms, don’t you
think so?

Don’t get us wrong, this article does in no way
attempt to shame the dignity of women. There
are justifiable reasons why women fake
orgasms. The following are just common
reasons as to why women they do and we hope
this will help you initiate safe and inspiring
conversations with your sexual partner.

Women when they are with a new guy are
mostly concerned with pleasing him.

This is a fact that try as much as they may,
women can’t deny that they’re so concerned
about the new guy that they think little of
themselves. Sadly, above all the things women
do to please, they want to make sure their
partner ejaculates. It in a way gives them some
sort of assurance that they’ve been successful.
His ejaculation means they pleased him, they’ve
won but they aren’t pleased themselves.


It often takes women time to share the things
that gets them going.

Women might have a need to feel secure in the
relationship coupled with feeling that their
partners need to understand their desires and
fantasies before they can be able to reach an
orgasmic state. It could be she’s open to using
sex toys or she wants to get kinky in other
ways. She may enjoy being on top or want you
to touch her in specific places.

 Whatever the
case may be, women expect you’d show
understanding and patience especially since
they’re getting to know you better.
Sometimes sex is painful for women.

There are times in which sexual intercourse is
painful for women especially when they are on
their period or close to it. More so, it is
painful all the time for some women. The
presence of endometriosis or ovarian cysts may
be responsible for the pain just as birth control
pills can also be responsible for the pain by
making the lining of the vaginas thinner and
more sensitive too. Some women on the other
hand have experienced sexual trauma which
may have a psychological effect on them. Some
women may not be able to orgasm as easily or in
different positions as they’d love to. It may be
wise to consider discussing this with a partner
that’s comfortable with sharing as many
positions as we’d like to.


Women can feel vulnerable (just like men) in
expressing their orgasm.
You may find a woman feeling all sweaty or
making some funny and weird faces when she’s
way into the sweaty sex act. Truth is sex
makes everyone vulnerable as one can never be
too sure of what will happen when she relaxes
and flow with the act. It could be that there
was a time she orgasmed and some pee came out
which was embarrassing to say the least. The
human body can be unpredictable which is a
good thing if taken with a light heart.
Lots of women don’t know how to orgasm
during sex.

This is not because they haven’t thought of
ways to go about it but simply because it has
never happened to them even though they’ve
tried a lot of things. Certain medications and
antidepressants make it a herculean task
sometimes almost impossible to orgasm. There
are women who only reported getting an orgasm
at a gym, while laughing real hard and some in
their sleep. Women who can’t orgasm during
sex often are frustrated by it, and may only
want to have sex because it makes them feel
good in other ways. Such as the feel of how
their partner touches their nipples. Stuff like
that make women feel intimate and close to
their partners.

Ladies, you might want to try out an array of
things such as masturbation – if you’re open to
it. It can be a good way of determining what
would make you orgasm. Try a lot of different
things. Use lube. Use toys. Lay on your belly.
Lay on your back. Try the corner of a table.

Make sounds. There is nothing wrong with you
neither is anything wrong with faking orgasms.
Do what’s right for your body in your
relationships.

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